The power of a Jew is the completeness of his days. Pay attention: that one of the hardest things for people is consistency. And one of the things our generation mainly suffers from is lack of consistency. A person starts doing good deeds, he starts to enhance a commandment, or good deed to perform. He starts some commandment or matter, two or three days, and by the fourth day they’re not to be found. It’s gone with the wind. He did something great, but a week later, a month later, and two seasons have already passed. It’s hard for people, consistency.
Whoever manages to be consistent, that’s a holy person. “And Abraham was old, well advanced in days.” All his days were complete. Day after day, after day, after day, consistency, consistency. Every day another link in the chain.
That’s one of the things that causes either to establish and base a home with solid and strong foundations, or to turn the home into ruins. And that’s one of the primary reasons for peace in the home. Let’s say gently, if he’s absent from home, he’s out. Why is there less harmony between spouses? Why do they end up in broken places? The root of the matter is a lack of consistency.
Generally in the structure of a woman’s soul-generally, it’s not a law, but generally-her soul’s structure, besides it being easy for her to accept guidance and she’s looking for guidance and she seeks guidance, if there’s only some stable guidance, she also leans toward stability and perseverance, generally more than the man. And if he’s unsteady in life, it diminishes his value, over time. And this is one of the things that can definitely cause that a home, in a nutshell, won’t succeed. A lack of stability, mental, spiritual, and physical. And it will manifest in many areas.
A person will start some commandment, or some enhancement or spiritual guidance, or even in earning a living, what he does will be temporary. A person who hasn’t acquired stability in his soul, you’ll see that he can’t do anything in life!
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